I was nearing the end of my grocery excursion when I looked at my phone and gave an inward sigh of relief. I had 25 minutes left until my OnDemand vehicle arrived and I only had three items left to pick up and all of them were in the same aisle. Then a message popped up on the screen saying, “We needed to move your ride to a different vehicle. Your new vehicle is MINUTES away: White Toyota Camry, pick up at [not particularly needed]”. Suddenly “me being ahead” was “me being so far behind”. This store is notoriously awful with their number of open tills and amount of people in line and I no longer had that amount of time. I tossed the last item into the cart and hurried to the front.
I usually have to get dragged kicking and screaming to the self serve machine (might be a small amount of hyperbole). An employee could come to me and say, “There’s twenty people in this line and there’s an empty self serve machine available” and my response would be, “That’s okay, I’ve got a book”. My anxiety does not mesh well with UNEXPECTED ITEM IN BAGGAGE AREA. But I what could I do? There were two open tills and both had long lines so I wheeled my cart to the last self serve machine available. The machine behaved and didn’t make a peep through the whole exchange and, soon I was heading to the exit… where there was an OnDemand vehicle outside the doors. As I watched, it cruised over toward the entrance and out of my line of vision. The first bag felt like it had been filled with cement while the second was a smidge lighter (why did I buy that many cans?). The last bag was clipped to the cart and was quietly obstreperous. It did not want to leave. By the time I walked out the door with all three bags the vehicle was turning out of the parking lot. I watched as it drove away then called OnDemand.
Now here’s the fun bit. OnDemand is a service that recommends you reserve your ride the day before. I called at the grocery store once and was told there was a ride available in five hours. Did I still have a ride available in 15 minutes or did I have to re-book and hope for the best. The answer would be… after I got off hold.
I reached the bus stop and looked around at the wet ground. Was it too wet for my fabric bags? There was a grocery cart but it was equally wet and had a potato in the baby seat. Why a potato?
“Excuse me?”
I turned around to see a young, average looking man watching me from about a metre away.
“I was wondering something,” he said as he walked toward me. “Could I buy your socks?”
My socks???
“I’ll pay you $20”
For my $1 Dollarama socks? “Sure, that’s fine,” I replied. That was when he noticed my phone.
“I’m so sorry,” he apologized. “I didn’t know you were on the phone.”
I assured him I was on hold and he handed me a twenty before walking to a nearby low wall that doubles as a bench. I sat there with my bags in front of me, phone to my ear, while pulling my feet out of my boots and taking off my socks. Then he wanted to take pictures of my feet. Uhh, I guess. They’re pretty ugly. So he pulled my left foot onto his lap and started taking pictures. That was when dispatch answered. He’s assuring me that the message had been for another person and my ride would be there soon. Meanwhile I’ve got a complete stranger kissing the sole of my foot… and talking baby talk to it???
I tugged my foot away and put my boots on. “My ride will be here shortly”, I informed him.
“Can we do this three times a week?” he asked hopefully.
Oh hell no!
I said the first thing that popped into my mind. “I’d run out of socks pretty quickly.”
“I’ll pay you $500 every five days.”
Wait what??? “I can buy more socks”.
He took my phone number and walked away just as my ride pulled in. It was a challenge to get my feet and the bags into the rear footwell and the seat belt clasp kept hiding on me. Meanwhile my my phone was blowing up with messages. I finally checked my phone and he’s asking where I was and if I was ignoring the phone or had vanished. Yeah buddy, I’m a vampire. I turned into mist.
“I’m still here,” I texted back. Damn, there’s needy and then there’s this.
I was thinking about parameters regarding meeting up to exchange socks and money, albeit between his nearly incessant texts. I know that first of all, there was no way he was getting near my apartment. We could meet outside the convenience store and I could just hand him the bag of socks. This also would stop him from whispering sweet nothings to my feet. And, second, I refused to believe any millennial could afford to pay $2000 every month for some dirty socks. Talk about a horrible reason to skip out on your half of the rent!
Then he texted me again.
“We need to set some boundaries,” I informed him, knowing that we really meant I. I don’t think he has any boundaries. “I am very introverted plus I’m also asexual and on the aromantic spectrum. I can’t handle anywhere near this many texts or romantic stuff.”
He apologized then immediately sent me, not one, but two dick pics. I mean seriously? I get that he’s proud of the thing but nearly half the population has one; it’s not share worthy.
“This aro-ace is out of here,” I texted then went through the menus to find the delete option. The last reply I saw from him was a bewildered, “What does that mean?” I’m not Google, he can find it on his own.
It was all around a weird encounter but I got a twenty out of it so there’s that.